Death

Sorrow and grief are the price we pay for love and devotion. When death separates us from the one we love, life suddenly seems dark and the future empty. But, we are not without guidance at this critical moment in our lives. Judaism has developed a way of dealing with death and grief which can help us through this difficult period. The Jewish way is based on two principles: 1) k’vod hamet- honoring and respecting the deceased, and 2) nihum avelim- consoling the mourners. These two principles help mourners accept the reality of death, express their sorrow, and take up living without their beloved. Modern psychology has recognized the therapeutic value of the Jewish religious rituals and practices which help individuals express rather than repress their grief, talk about their loss with friends, and move step by step from inactivity to normal living.

For more information on Jewish views and practices surrounding death and mourning, explore the Beth El Max Shapiro Library or contact one of the rabbis.

Links in the sidebar to the right provide further resources on the practice of saying kaddish, the laws of mourning, a sample “unveiling service” and much more.